What Growing Us is
Growing Us is an AI couples coach for partners who want one better conversation this week. You talk by voice, alone or together. It reflects the pattern back and gives you one thing to try.
Growing Us is free to start on Android and iPhone: two coaching sessions with no credit card, then $1 a session (as of October 2026). Android on Google Play. iPhone in the App Store in Canada, New Zealand, Singapore, the United States and the United Kingdom.
What it does
- Voice coaching: talk to the coach (Rose) by voice, with text always available. Sessions run up to 10 minutes.
- Solo or couple mode: use it alone, or talk together and get a post-session summary that separates what each of you said.
- Relationship Pulse Check: a private five-minute check-in that maps your patterns. No account needed to begin.
- 50+ conversation guides for specific moments, from appreciation to the elephant in the room.
- Memory across sessions, so the coach can pick up where you left off.
Who makes it
Growing Us is built by A & A, a couple. The Growing Us card deck came first. We were trying to keep a weekly relationship retrospective alive, so we wrote better questions on cards, pulled one over coffee, and let the ritual become more playful. Friends asked for copies, and the deck became the first Growing Us product. The app came later, because some conversations need memory, coaching and a next step.
The app is published by Blum & CO, 2 Goodchap St, Surry Hills NSW 2010, Australia (D-U-N-S 889016981). You can read the longer story in how we started Growing Us.
What it is not
Growing Us is a coaching tool, not therapy. It does not diagnose, and it is not the right place to start if there is abuse, a safety concern, or a crisis. In those cases a licensed professional or a crisis line is.
What others say
“A wonderful and much-needed tool for building stronger, more loving relationships.”
Dr. Harry Reis, relationship scientist, University of Rochester, How To Feel Loved (2026)
Get in touch
Questions, feedback or press: reach us through our contact form. More ways to reach us, and our legal details, are on the contact page.